Be The Light.
As I've gone through life, one thing has become clear: people seem to gravitate toward me. I don't say this out of arrogance, but it’s something I’ve always noticed. I think it’s because I've always walked my own path, never followed the crowd, and always gone against the grain. And I believe people respect that. But the truth is, I haven’t always been the best version of myself.
There were times when I drank too much, smoked too much weed, or didn’t push myself physically or mentally. That version of me would often fall into a victim mentality, wondering why I wasn’t where I was supposed to be, or why someone else had it easier. But as I grow older - and hopefully wiser - I’m learning something crucial: life is not easy, and nothing worth having comes without effort.
To be fit, to become successful, to grow a thriving business, or to create a healthy family dynamic, you have to earn it - every single day. And honestly, that’s how it should be. If someone handed you everything without the struggle, you wouldn’t appreciate the journey or know how to handle the inevitable challenges. The failures and the grind shape you, teach you your strengths, and expose your weaknesses so you can become stronger.
This brings me to the buffalo. Instead of running from the storm, the buffalo charges through it, knowing that’s the quickest way to get to the sunshine on the other side. I’ve started to approach life the same way - no shortcuts, no easy way out. You face the storm head-on, and you come out stronger.
When I’m around people - whether it’s my wife, daughter, family, friends, clients, or kids I coach - I want to be a source of energy, not an energy drain. I want people to walk away from our time together feeling inspired, not weighed down by negativity. We all know those people who find a problem for every solution. I strive to be the opposite - the person who brings answers and positivity.
What I want you to see when you look at me is someone grinding before the sun comes up, someone who prioritizes family, gives time to the youth, networks to grow a business, and always seeks to improve mentally and physically. And if you ever catch me slipping, I want you to call me out - just like I would do for you. We’re here to lift each other up, not tear each other down.
There’s enough in this world for all of us to win. The abundance is real, and we can all eat. But it takes work - every day, relentlessly. Be the light, push beyond your limits, and remember that your actions speak louder than words. People are watching, even when you don’t realize it, and you have the power to influence them in the best way possible.
One of my favorite quotes is, “There aren’t lazy kids, just lazy parents.” It’s a reminder that the example we set matters more than anything we say. So, get after it today, tomorrow, and every day after that. Be the positive influence you know you’re meant to be - for your family, your friends, your community, and everyone you touch.
