Coach Matt.
Baseball is my first true love. From playing Little League to high school, college, and even a year of professional independent baseball, I've seen it all. Or so I thought. Despite all my experience, stepping into the role of Coach Matt for a 14U team has been an eye-opening journey, reminding me that there's always more to learn—about the game, about setting up young players for success, and about myself as a coach.
The Evolution of Coaching: From College to 14U
I've had the privilege of coaching at various levels, each requiring a unique approach. Coaching 13- and 14-year-olds, mentoring my old college team, and working with the Range Riders have all shaped my coaching philosophy in distinct ways. Each team demands a different mentality and a tailored approach to nurture their growth.
For my current 14U team, it's about more than just teaching baseball. It's about creating good habits and molding these boys into young men. At this age, it's crucial to relate to them, understand what makes them tick, and embrace the changes, thoughts, and feelings they are experiencing. Unlike college and pro players, who are more well-rounded and have a clearer sense of their identity, these young athletes need guidance to develop both on and off the field.
The Joy of Watching Growth
Coaching this 14U team has been incredibly rewarding so far. Watching these kids grow, both as players and as individuals, is a joy. We have a fantastic group of boys, and my goal is to help them transition smoothly into high school baseball. But beyond that, I hope to instill in them the values of hard work and teamwork. I want them to see the importance of treating others with respect, to understand how to work diligently on and off the field, and to recognize the significance of being a part of something larger than themselves.
I also aim to lead by example. I hope my love for my wife and daughter shows them how to treat women with respect and kindness. Creating a team-first, safe environment is essential, where we win and lose as a team, support each other in times of need, and celebrate together when the moment is right.
Balancing Intensity with Enjoyment
One of my biggest challenges as a coach is finding the balance between intensity and enjoyment. I've always been an intense player, and that intensity has trickled into my coaching. I take the game very seriously because I love to win and hate to lose. However, I have to remind myself that it's a game meant to be enjoyed and played with love. Sometimes, I push too hard, especially when I see talent not being fully realized or utilized. It's a delicate balance—encouraging hard work without overwhelming the kids.
I used to be the first one on the field and the last one off it. But I have to remember that these kids aren't me. They have their own unique ways of operating, and my job is to help them be the best they can be, both as players and as young men. A great leader and coach treats each player as an individual, understanding their strengths and areas for growth, and helping them navigate their own paths.
The Bigger Picture: Life Lessons Through Baseball
Ultimately, my goal is to be the best coach and leader I can be for these boys. I want them to understand the importance of hard work, teamwork, and striving to become better in all aspects of life. I hope they remember this season not just for the skills they learned on the field, but for the life lessons they gained off it.
As Coach Matt, I strive to teach them how to deal with life's curveballs, not just how to hit them in a game. Baseball is a powerful metaphor for life, and through this sport, I aim to equip these young men with the tools they need to face any challenge that comes their way.
So, as I continue to learn and grow as a coach, I am grateful for the opportunity to guide these young athletes. They remind me daily that the journey of learning and growth never truly ends, and for that, I am deeply thankful. Go A’s!
