The Balancing Act.
Building a business, being a present husband, being a great dad, taking care of myself physically and mentally, and coaching young men—these are all crucial roles that define my day-to-day life. Yet, finding balance amidst these responsibilities often feels like an insurmountable challenge. This blog is a testament to my journey in trying to juggle these aspects and a call for advice from others who might be walking a similar path.
The Juggling Act
Every day feels like a high-wire act, balancing between being there for my family and pushing my business forward. It's hard to be fully present at home when my mind is occupied with work-related thoughts. When I should be playing with my daughter or talking with my wife, I'm often mentally drafting client emails or planning my next business move. It's a struggle to keep sight of what's truly important.
So, here's my routine, the way I try to fit everything in while maintaining my sanity:
My Daily Routine
Morning:
5 or 6 AM: The day starts early, dictated by how disciplined I'm feeling. I kick things off with a cold plunge to wake up my senses.
Early Morning: A walk or jog with Charlee sets a positive tone, followed by breakfast with the family.
Charlee's Nap Time: This window is crucial for tackling paperwork, client calls, and other tasks for MontanaMattProperties.
Work Day:
8 AM - 2 PM: These are my primary working hours. This time is packed with creating listing presentations, prospecting, and handling various business operations. Erin and I juggle our schedules to ensure one of us is always with Charlee.
Afternoon:
2 PM: I squeeze in a strength workout, a part of my commitment to the 75 Hard challenge.
4 - 5:30 PM: Coaching young men at baseball practice is both rewarding and demanding.
Evening:
6 PM: Another family walk before dinner.
Dinner Time: Erin and I use this time to reconnect, either catching up on the day or unwinding with a show.
Bedtime Routine: We like to read in bed before drifting off to sleep, closing out the day with a sense of calm.
The Challenges
As you can see, our days are tightly scheduled, leaving little room for social activities, events, or even date nights. The pressure to support and provide for my family is ever-present, and it can be overwhelming. It's easy to feel like I'm falling short in some areas, no matter how hard I try.
Seeking Balance and Advice
I'm reaching out to those who might be feeling the same pressures. How do you manage to stay present in your personal life while pushing your professional boundaries? Here are a few things I'm considering, and I'd love your input:
Prioritization: How do you decide what truly needs your immediate attention?
Efficiency: Any tips on reducing time spent on certain tasks or being more efficient?
Delegation: When and how do you delegate tasks, either professionally or personally, to free up more time?
Mindfulness: Techniques to keep your mind focused on the present moment, whether you're at work or with family.
Community: How do you stay connected with friends and maintain a social life amidst a packed schedule?
Moving Forward Together
The aim here is to create a dialogue. I don't have all the answers, but together we might find strategies that work. Balancing life's demands is hard, but we can't afford to forget what's most important—our families and our well-being.
Do you feel the same pressure and overwhelm? How do you deal with it? Let's share our experiences and support each other in this journey toward balance. Your insights and advice could be just what I or someone else needs to hear.
