Work-Life Balance.

Life is a whirlwind, isn't it? Especially when you're in the business of building an incredible life for yourself and your family. I'm currently knee-deep in the adventure of parenthood, navigating the uncharted territory of balancing work, life, and the beautiful chaos that comes with a 3-month-old bundle of joy named Charlee.

It's a daily grind that leaves you wondering where the time went, what you accomplished, and if you're getting any closer to those big goals. For me, a self-proclaimed go-getter, this has been a challenge. If I'm not getting better, I feel like I'm getting worse – a mantra that's both a blessing and a curse.

Now, throw in the structured routines that are non-negotiables for my health and career – cold plunges, workouts, stretching, saunas, calls, texts, emails, meetings – it's a juggling act, to say the least. Sacrifice becomes the secret ingredient in this ambitious recipe.

In the pursuit of being a devoted father, a supportive husband, a top-notch real estate agent, and a relentless gym warrior, something's got to give. Lately, it's been sleep. I understand it affects my health, but I've always been one to function well on minimal sleep. Late nights and early mornings have become my norm, allowing me to cram in all the essentials before Erin and Charlee rise, ensuring my cup is full to pour into theirs.

The business side, though, presents a different challenge. Showings, contracts, negotiations, emails, and calls demand attention, and finding those elusive time slots can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. As men, we're wired to be providers, taught to shoulder it all. Yet, time is a precious commodity, and it's okay to say no.

A favorite quote of mine is, "If it's not a f*ck yes, it's a no." Translation: if it doesn't light you up, enhance your life, or take you closer to your goals, don't waste your time. It's a tough lesson, but one that's essential in the delicate dance of work, life, and the pursuit of greatness.

So here's to the late nights, early mornings, and the sacrifices we make to build the lives we dream of – a toast to the journey, the hustle, and the sweet victories that come with finding that elusive balance.

P.S. - Veteran Dads, I’m open to all advice you may have!